Would you like to feel more confident in social situations? Would you like to have the ability to approach almost anybody during any time, any where, and with HUGE confidence? Would you like to know the best way to become more social? A lot of people seem to think that socially talented people were just born that way, and it cannot really be learned. But the truth is you can learn to become better in social interactions! You can learn to become better at social interactions by taking small steps every single day. What you need to do is simply use all of your small social interactions to become a more socially better person! So what exactly is the best way to become more social?
Every day, we all have situations in which we have to talk to people that we do not know. You go to the supermarket, you go to the park (where people may sometimes ask for directions), you go to the pharmacy and you go to several other places! The problem is that in most cases, we act in a mechanical way. For example, when we go to the supermarket, we say “Hello… Thank you….. Good bye” and that’s it! But what if you took on a challenge? What if from tomorrow, you make a commitment to yourself that you will initiate AT LEAST 3 conversations with people that you do not know, and do this on a daily basis? For example, instead of just going into the supermarket and saying “Hello….. thank you…. good bye…..”, you say “Hey. How are you doing today? The weather is amazing (or anything relatively similar to this).” From doing this, you will be able to create longer, more informative and more social interactions.
Now after several days of doing this, you will naturally learn the flow and patterns that occur in conversations, and small talk and conversations with strangers will become second nature to you! You will now be able to do this without any problems, and with a huge level of confidence.
That is the best way to become more social!