How To Turn Her Into Your Girlfriend


wYou’ve taken a girl out one, two or maybe more times than you can think. You really really like this girl and you want to take things to the next level. But how? Do you ask her if she wants to become your girlfriend? Do you just let the relationship as it is now, mature to the next level until you no longer need to wonder whether this girl is your girlfriend or not? Do you wonder whether or not you have been friend zoned by this girl and just wonder whether she sees you as a good friend who she can share her time and thoughts with?

Forget asking this girl, “Do you want to be my girlfriend?” Asking a girl to be your girlfriend can seem embarrassing and may put her on the spot to reconsider whether or not she wants to take things to the next level with you. Having to ask her to be your girlfriend can also cause her to question your level of confidence and commitment in what you both have. You should both subconsciously know whether or not what you have together is something more than friendship, so questioning this level of commitment will not do your relationship many favors and may make you both reconsider everything.

If you want to know how to turn her into your girlfriend, here is a very good way to go about requesting her to become your girlfriend:

Instead of asking her, “Do you want to be my girlfriend?”, next time you are out and about with her and you see somebody that you know, introduce her as your “girlfriend” and tell this person how and where you both met each other. When you do this, just say these things in a very casual, excited manner. Once the interaction is over, if your “girlfriend” does not feel the same way as you, she will say something like “That was really kind of you but I do not think that we should be together.” Although she may have rejected your statement that you are both together, she was not forced to answer a question and make the conscious choice of whether or not she wants to be your girlfriend. If you had asked her whether or not she wants to be your girlfriend, her emotional mind may want to be with you, but her logical mind is very likely to find some kind of reason or excuse as to why you should not be together. This is a natural defense mechanism that people have that protects them from potentially dangerous or emotionally harmful situations. If she does in fact want to be your girlfriend, she may not say anything to you at all about it but her attitude and level of excitement is likely to boost for at least the rest of the day. From her change in mood or level or excitement, you will know that she does in fact want to be your girlfriend.