Now unless you are from another planet, extremely different culture or just can’t take a hint, you are likely to have a fair idea if a particular girl has any interest in you. Women tend to be more subtle when it comes to flirting with men and showing interest in men. Our society predominantly expects men to make all of the moves and to establish the relationship right from the beginning. By correctly identifying women who show interest in you, it makes the whole “pick up” game a ton easier (with less rejections on your part.) If you notice any (or preferably) all of these five signs that she is into you, get excited, because there is a good chance that you are in!
You frequently connect eyes: Do you find yourself in crowded places where she constantly notices you across a room? This is no accident. Unless she recognizes you from somewhere (which is unlikely), there is a good chance that she is physically attracted to you. Constant eye connection is perhaps one of the most subtle signs that she is interested in you, but you cannot guarantee that this is the case that she likes you. Be sure to not shy away and do hold this eye contact. How she responds to this will only you more information.
She avoids you: So you walk into a room or close proximity to a lady and she walks away. This is likely to be a coincidence if it happens once. But if you notice that this becomes a regular occurrence, it is likely that your presence make her nervous. Girls frequently do this when they are shy and feel anxiety when around people that they are attracted to. If you find yourself to be avoided constantly by a girl you like, just talk to her. Attempt to break down any negative barrier that she may have. Her shyness will allow you to dominate the conversation and express the alpha male inside you.
She is overly responsive to what you say/do: Do you make a lame or light joke that gets a big laugh or even a touch? Women tend to do this in order to make you feel comfortable and know that they enjoy your company. Carefully watch her interactions with other men. If you notice that she is more “normal” or less responsive to interactions with other men, this is a key sign that she is into you.
She unnecessarily touches you: So you are at talking level with a girl, she seems to find any excuse to rub food off of your face, grab your arm or even hugs you regularly. This may just be her nature, but she is using unnecessary touching with you in order to build rapport and convey confidence in your presence and just to show that she likes you. If she touches you often, return the favour! Do not shy away.
You just happen to cross paths regularly: So you spend Thursday afternoons at the library, so does she, you go to a particular bar often, and so does she. Often this may just be a coincidence, but consistently finding yourself in the presence of a particular girl may be no accident. This girl is just dying for your attention. If you find yourself crossing paths with a particular girl far too often, she is very likely to be keen on you.
Remember to take these signs with a grain of salt. However, if ALL of these signs are regular occurrences, there is no doubt that you have a potential girl in your hands. Attempt to initiate interaction once you notice a girl is keen on you. Remember, if you come across her often and she displays interest in you, you have more than enough to talk about!
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